Bringing Home the Faith (sixth installment)

Bringing Home the Faith: a Pastor writes to her teenage son about Christian belief is a series of ten letters I wrote for my son addressing his doubts about Christian faith and answering his questions about what Christians believe and why.  Each letter is preceded by an Introduction which introduces its particular topic.

Please share these weekly installments of Bringing Home the Faith with someone in your life, whether young or old, who wants uncomplicated and honest answers to their questions and concerns about Christian faith.

Last week in Letter No. 2: How to pray, I wrote about the Lord’s Prayer and how it is a great model for our prayers. This week I describe in greater detail two of the four categories we find in the Lord’s Prayer: praise and confession.

Every morning, when I first wake up, I begin praying to God. I’m not even out of bed at this point. I’m not even thinking about what I’m supposed to be doing or accomplishing or hoping for in the day ahead. My first thoughts are directed to God, because I’ve learned that the way to start any day is to begin with prayer – to make hanging out with Him the first and most important part of every day.

I used to think that the first thing I needed to do when I awoke in the morning was to plan my day. Then I discovered (after years and years of making this mistake) that all my planning and worrying only kept me away from God. I was thinking about my problems and not about Him. One day it struck me that this was “idolatry.” My problems got way more of my time and attention than God. In a sense, I was “worshiping” my problems.

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Bringing Home the Faith (fifth installment)

Bringing Home the Faith: a Pastor writes to her teenage son about Christian belief is a series of ten letters I wrote for my son addressing his doubts about Christian faith and answering his questions about what Christians believe and why.  Each letter is preceded by an Introduction which introduces its particular topic.

Please share these weekly installments of Bringing Home the Faith with someone in your life, whether young or old, who wants uncomplicated and honest answers to their questions and concerns about Christian faith.

Last week in Letter No. 2: How to pray, I wrote that prayer is ‘hanging out with God all day long, all life long.’ King David’s psalms are a great example of ongoing and honest communication with God through prayer. This week and next I am writing about the prayer that Jesus taught his disciples and what a great model it is for our prayers:

In the New Testament we see how Jesus, God’s Son (and King David’s great, great, great, great, great, great, great-grandson) also prayed to God. Like us, he couldn’t see God because he was bound by the same human constraints as you and me while he was living on earth. But we know from what the gospel writers tell us about him that he was hanging out with God through prayer all the time.

Luke writes in Chapter 6 of his gospel that before Jesus picked out his twelve apostles he spent the night praying to God (6:12-16). I bet he was asking God for advice about whom to pick and what to do next. Jesus never made a move without consulting with God. He wanted only to do God’s will in all things and he knew he could not do this unless he was in constant contact with his Father.

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Bringing Home the Faith (fourth installment)

Bringing Home the Faith: a Pastor writes to her teenage son about Christian belief is a series of ten letters I wrote for my son addressing his doubts about Christian faith and answering his questions about what Christians believe and why.  Each letter is preceded by an Introduction which introduces its particular topic.

Please share these weekly installments of Bringing Home the Faith with someone in your life, whether young or old, who wants uncomplicated and honest answers to their questions and concerns about Christian faith.

Letter No. 2: How to Pray

Introduction

The apostle Paul gives the following advice in his first letter to the Thessalonians: pray without ceasing. (5:17) I have to admit that years ago this was one piece of pastoral advice I had no interest in following. I just didn’t enjoy praying. It was an effort for me. I prayed out of a sense of obligation and I was relieved when it was over.

But that all changed when I participated in a Moms In Touch prayer group at Caleb’s elementary school. Moms In Touch is an international group that began twenty-five years ago with a few moms who gathered weekly to pray for their children who attended a California junior high school. Now it has spread to schools all across the country. Prayer time is structured and follows the same pattern week after week. It begins with a verse of Scripture, followed by freely offered praise, thanksgiving, silent confession and, only when everything else has come before, petitions for one’s child and the school.

This structure was a revelation to me. Well, O.K., not at first. I do tend to resist when someone tells me I have to do something a certain way. But soon, the rhythm became liberating as I found myself in joyful communication with God. Prayer stopped being for me a “laundry list” of needs and concerns and a guilty effort. It became something I enjoyed because I felt like I was entering God’s heavenly sanctuary where I could stand in blissful communion with Him. This way of praying is what I want to pass on to Caleb.

If you are looking for a seminar on prayer, you won’t find it in the letter that follows. Nor will you find an argument for why we should pray or a full-blown discussion of how or whether God answers prayer. Great books have been written on those subjects. I leave the dissertations to the experts. Instead, this letter is about the mechanics of prayer: how to get started and how to keep going. My goal is to give Caleb a way to discover the joy of hanging out with God through prayer. From that perspective, who wouldn’t want to “pray without ceasing”?

Dear Caleb,

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