Prayer (sixth in a series)

As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.  Psalm 103:12

This week I continue with the topic of confession as prayer. Confessing our sins is an opportunity to declare the truth about ourselves, a truth which God already knows.  But even knowing our sins full well God never withholds his love for us, just like the father in the parable of the prodigal son.  (You can read last week’s post for a full explanation of that story.)

Yet, admitting an unpleasant truth can be difficult. It used to be nearly impossible for me to say, “I’m sorry” to someone when I had done something I should not have done, or when I had failed to act.  I felt if I admitted I was wrong I would be declaring that I’m a bad person — and I just couldn’t bear that image of myself.  Well into adulthood I struggled with the inability to admit my faults and sins, without being overwhelmed by shame. Continue reading

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Prayer (fifth in a series)

“I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.”  (Luke 15:18)

In previous posts I’ve talked about praise and thanksgiving as important aspects of prayer.  This week, and for the next two weeks, I’m addressing the topic of confession, which is also a form of prayer.

The word confess means the following: to agree, to admit, to acknowledge.  So when we confess to God, we are admitting the truth about ourselves – and the truth about God. Most often, confession is thought of as owning up to our sins before God.  This is the aspect of confession I am addressing in this and next week’s post.  Two weeks from now I will write about owning up to our standing before God.

Admitting the truth about our sins is not meant to be an exercise in humiliation. Rest assured, God is a generous, patient and forgiving Father, whose Son, Jesus Christ, suffered the full penalty and shame for our sins. As Paul writes in his letter to the Romans, “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (1:1)  But the effect of Jesus’ sacrifice, on our behalf, will only make a difference in our life when can admit our sinfulness.  In other words, we’ve got to own up to the truth about ourselves (and God) in order for the truth to set us free. Continue reading

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Prayer (fourth in a series)

Give thanks in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:18)

Last week I wrote about the importance of offering thanks to God. Regularly giving thanks helps us to remember that everything we have is a gift from an incredibly generous Lord.  There is nothing in life for which we can claim sole credit.  God gives each of us, according to his purpose and will, gifts, talents and skills.  Even when we use these blessings wisely and profitably the glory still belongs to the Lord, not to us.  Giving thanks on a regular basis will help keep pride at bay.

Giving thanks also helps us curb any tendency we may have to feel sorry for ourselves.  If we are constantly comparing our life with the lives of other people we will become disheartened at some point. The remedy is to take up the practice of giving thanks to God for anything that comes to mind, taking nothing for granted.  I guarantee you that if you do this you will begin to realize how rich in blessings you really are.  The habit of giving thanks to God will give you hope and fill you with joy, no matter what your circumstances are in life. Continue reading

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